"Never trust a man who speaks well of everybody"
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The subtext is that real moral and aesthetic life requires friction. Anyone who claims universal approval is either lying, afraid, or inattentive. Collins is also taking a swipe at a certain Victorian politeness: the culture of earnest compliments that can mask cowardice. Criticism, in his worldview, isn’t meanness; it’s a duty to truth. If you can’t name what’s wrong, your praise means nothing - it has no evidentiary value.
There’s also a shrewd read of human incentives. People who praise everyone make themselves unaccountable; no one can pin them down. They cultivate a reputation for kindness while quietly avoiding the risks that come with taking a position. The quote works because it reframes “niceness” as a potential tell - a social performance that, paradoxically, signals mistrustworthiness. In an era that prized manners and reputation, Collins is saying the most dangerous figure isn’t the open enemy; it’s the agreeable friend who never tells the truth to anyone, including you.
Quote Details
| Topic | Fake Friends |
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| Source | Later attribution: Phillips' Book of Great Thoughts and Funny Sayings (Bob Phillips, 2024) modern compilation
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"Never trust a man who speaks well of everybody." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-trust-a-man-who-speaks-well-of-everybody-167788/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









