"Not every religion has to have St. Augustine's attitude to sex. Why even in our culture marriages are celebrated in a church, everyone present knows what is going to happen that night, but that doesn't prevent it being a religious ceremony"
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Then Wittgenstein pivots to a scene so ordinary it’s practically banal: the church wedding. Everyone, he notes, knows exactly what’s “going to happen that night.” The line is funny because it treats the supposedly unspeakable as common knowledge, and it’s philosophically strategic because it exposes a mismatch between official moral posture and lived social ritual. The subtext is not “religion is hypocritical” in the tabloid sense; it’s that religious practices often operate with a double awareness. Communities can acknowledge embodied life without needing to either sanctify it with metaphysics or quarantine it with disgust.
This fits Wittgenstein’s larger project: resisting the urge to turn human practices into grand theories. He’s less interested in adjudicating sex ethically than in showing how religious language and ceremony work in real life - as forms of life, not abstract propositions. The ceremony remains religious not because it denies sexuality, but because it frames it: it places a bodily act inside a public grammar of commitment, kinship, and recognition. His point is slyly liberating: the sacred doesn’t have to be prudish to be coherent.
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Wittgenstein, Ludwig. (2026, January 18). Not every religion has to have St. Augustine's attitude to sex. Why even in our culture marriages are celebrated in a church, everyone present knows what is going to happen that night, but that doesn't prevent it being a religious ceremony. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-every-religion-has-to-have-st-augustines-8723/
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Wittgenstein, Ludwig. "Not every religion has to have St. Augustine's attitude to sex. Why even in our culture marriages are celebrated in a church, everyone present knows what is going to happen that night, but that doesn't prevent it being a religious ceremony." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-every-religion-has-to-have-st-augustines-8723/.
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"Not every religion has to have St. Augustine's attitude to sex. Why even in our culture marriages are celebrated in a church, everyone present knows what is going to happen that night, but that doesn't prevent it being a religious ceremony." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/not-every-religion-has-to-have-st-augustines-8723/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.






