"The sadness of the women's movement is that they don't allow the necessity of love. See, I don't personally trust any revolution where love is not allowed"
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The pivot is “necessity.” Love isn’t posed as romance or compliance; it’s survival infrastructure. Angelou’s subtext is that revolutions run on fuel, and resentment is a finite resource. Without love - for oneself, for other women, even for imperfect men - a movement risks becoming a mirror image of the domination it’s fighting: disciplined, punitive, emotionally policed. Her distrust isn’t naive; it’s historical. She had watched liberation struggles fracture under purity tests and performative toughness, where the demand to be “strong” slid into a ban on tenderness.
Context matters: Angelou’s feminism was shaped by Black life, where the politics of care aren’t optional. When the state, the workplace, and the street are all willing to treat you as disposable, love becomes a practice of insisting on your own and others’ personhood. That’s why the line lands. It’s less “be nice” than “build a world worth winning.” A revolution that can’t make room for love can seize power, but it can’t teach people how to live there.
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Angelou, Maya. (2026, January 17). The sadness of the women's movement is that they don't allow the necessity of love. See, I don't personally trust any revolution where love is not allowed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sadness-of-the-womens-movement-is-that-they-26715/
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Angelou, Maya. "The sadness of the women's movement is that they don't allow the necessity of love. See, I don't personally trust any revolution where love is not allowed." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sadness-of-the-womens-movement-is-that-they-26715/.
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"The sadness of the women's movement is that they don't allow the necessity of love. See, I don't personally trust any revolution where love is not allowed." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-sadness-of-the-womens-movement-is-that-they-26715/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.



