"To feel much for others and little for ourselves; to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections, constitute the perfection of human nature"
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The subtext is psychological and political at once. “To feel much for others” isn’t a Hallmark command; it’s a description of the social glue Smith believed markets and institutions quietly depend on. Sympathy (his term) is a skill, cultivated by imagining how our actions land in other people’s minds. “Little for ourselves” doesn’t mean self-erasure; it means curbing the tantrum of ego so the “impartial spectator” - that internalized public - can judge us. The key verb is “restrain.” Smith doesn’t romanticize benevolence as natural overflow. He treats selfishness as the default setting, requiring governance, habit, and social feedback.
Context matters: this is the Adam Smith of The Theory of Moral Sentiments (1759), writing in the Scottish Enlightenment, where commerce, urban life, and rising inequality forced a fresh question: what keeps a modern society from turning into a polite stampede? The quote works because it smuggles a radical claim into calm prose: the highest human achievement isn’t domination or accumulation; it’s self-management in the presence of others. In Smith’s world, morality isn’t opposed to economic life. It’s the operating system that lets it run.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Smith, Adam. (2026, January 18). To feel much for others and little for ourselves; to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections, constitute the perfection of human nature. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-feel-much-for-others-and-little-for-ourselves-3011/
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Smith, Adam. "To feel much for others and little for ourselves; to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections, constitute the perfection of human nature." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-feel-much-for-others-and-little-for-ourselves-3011/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"To feel much for others and little for ourselves; to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections, constitute the perfection of human nature." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/to-feel-much-for-others-and-little-for-ourselves-3011/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.











