"When my children were born, I didn't have them baptized because I felt baptism was about erasing Original Sin - something the Church said children got from their mother - and I absolutely refused to believe women carry Original Sin"
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Dukakis takes a sacrament that’s supposed to feel tender and automatic and turns it into a cultural argument about who gets blamed for what. The line lands because it’s maternal and insurgent at the same time: she’s talking about her own children, but she’s really interrogating a centuries-old story the Church has used to smuggle misogyny into family ritual. By describing baptism as an “erasing,” she strips the rite of its soft-focus sentimentality and reframes it as a moral accounting system. And then she points to the ledger’s dirty secret: Original Sin isn’t just metaphysical; it’s historically gendered.
Her phrasing is deliberate. “Something the Church said” is a quiet demotion of authority, not an atheist screed but a refusal to outsource conscience. The detail that children “got [sin] from their mother” yanks theology into the body, exposing how doctrine has often traveled through women’s biology: Eve, childbirth, impurity, the idea that mothers transmit not just life but moral stain. Dukakis doesn’t debate doctrine on its own terms; she rejects the premise as an ethical insult.
The subtext is as much about agency as belief. Refusing baptism becomes a protective act: not against God, but against a narrative that would welcome her children by indicting their mother. Coming from an actress associated with forceful, plainspoken roles, the quote reads like lived feminism rather than a theory seminar: faith isn’t dismissed, but patriarchal bookkeeping is. It’s a line that makes private parenting choices feel like public critique, and that’s why it sticks.
Her phrasing is deliberate. “Something the Church said” is a quiet demotion of authority, not an atheist screed but a refusal to outsource conscience. The detail that children “got [sin] from their mother” yanks theology into the body, exposing how doctrine has often traveled through women’s biology: Eve, childbirth, impurity, the idea that mothers transmit not just life but moral stain. Dukakis doesn’t debate doctrine on its own terms; she rejects the premise as an ethical insult.
The subtext is as much about agency as belief. Refusing baptism becomes a protective act: not against God, but against a narrative that would welcome her children by indicting their mother. Coming from an actress associated with forceful, plainspoken roles, the quote reads like lived feminism rather than a theory seminar: faith isn’t dismissed, but patriarchal bookkeeping is. It’s a line that makes private parenting choices feel like public critique, and that’s why it sticks.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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