"In today's society we sometimes forget to balance our hearts and our heads; this is the reason we stop laughing"
About this Quote
The intent is less to scold than to recalibrate. Smirnoff came up in an era when his whole persona was contrast: Soviet severity versus American abundance, suspicion versus ease. In that context, “forgetting to balance” reads as a uniquely prosperous problem. When life is engineered around optimization - careers, screens, status, productivity - the head dominates. When outrage and fear run the show, the heart dominates. Either way, comedy dies: cynicism dries it out, sentimentality drowns it.
The subtext is that laughter requires tension held lightly. You need enough feeling to care, enough reason to recognize the absurdity, and enough safety to release the pressure. His line also defends comedy against the modern demand that everything be either purely “serious” (head) or purely “sincere” (heart). Smirnoff argues for the middle space where humans metabolize the world: not by winning arguments, not by performing virtue, but by laughing so we can keep going.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Smirnoff, Yakov. (2026, January 15). In today's society we sometimes forget to balance our hearts and our heads; this is the reason we stop laughing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-todays-society-we-sometimes-forget-to-balance-145569/
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Smirnoff, Yakov. "In today's society we sometimes forget to balance our hearts and our heads; this is the reason we stop laughing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-todays-society-we-sometimes-forget-to-balance-145569/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"In today's society we sometimes forget to balance our hearts and our heads; this is the reason we stop laughing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/in-todays-society-we-sometimes-forget-to-balance-145569/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.







