"It is easier often to forgive than to be forgiven; yet it is fatal to be willing to be forgiven by God and to be reluctant to be forgiven by men"
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Williams needles a particular kind of piety: the version that loves vertical mercy (God to me) but resists horizontal mercy (other people to me). The first clause is disarmingly humane. Forgiving can feel like agency; being forgiven makes you a defendant in someone else’s court. You can choose the story when you forgive. When you’re forgiven, you have to accept someone else’s version of events, complete with the implication that you needed grace in the first place.
The sting is in “fatal.” Williams isn’t talking about etiquette or spiritual self-improvement; he’s describing a moral contradiction that corrodes the soul. Wanting God’s pardon while shrinking from human pardon is a way of keeping religion safely abstract. God, conveniently, can’t interrupt you at dinner, misunderstand your apology, or remember the details in a way that makes you cringe. Human forgiveness is messier and therefore more honest: it forces restitution, humility, and the risk that you won’t be restored to your old status.
As an editor in a Christian-inflected literary world (and a thinker close to the Inklings’ orbit), Williams would have been steeped in the idea that grace is not merely a private transaction but a social reality with consequences. His subtext: if your spirituality can’t survive the humiliations of interpersonal repair, it’s not spirituality; it’s a loophole. The line exposes the ego’s favorite compromise: accept infinite mercy from above, deny the finite, embodied mercy that would actually change how you live among others.
The sting is in “fatal.” Williams isn’t talking about etiquette or spiritual self-improvement; he’s describing a moral contradiction that corrodes the soul. Wanting God’s pardon while shrinking from human pardon is a way of keeping religion safely abstract. God, conveniently, can’t interrupt you at dinner, misunderstand your apology, or remember the details in a way that makes you cringe. Human forgiveness is messier and therefore more honest: it forces restitution, humility, and the risk that you won’t be restored to your old status.
As an editor in a Christian-inflected literary world (and a thinker close to the Inklings’ orbit), Williams would have been steeped in the idea that grace is not merely a private transaction but a social reality with consequences. His subtext: if your spirituality can’t survive the humiliations of interpersonal repair, it’s not spirituality; it’s a loophole. The line exposes the ego’s favorite compromise: accept infinite mercy from above, deny the finite, embodied mercy that would actually change how you live among others.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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