"Our ambition should be to rule ourselves, the true kingdom for each one of us; and true progress is to know more, and be more, and to do more"
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The sentence is engineered as an ethical rebrand. "Ambition" typically points outward - conquest, career, acclaim - but Wilde redirects it inward without sounding pious. He uses the language of empire ("rule", "kingdom") to sell restraint as glamour. The subtext is distinctly Wildean: self-mastery is not dour self-denial but a more refined, more aesthetic form of power. Governing oneself is presented as a kind of aristocracy of character, accessible to anyone willing to cultivate it.
Then he smuggles in a modern idea of progress: not GDP or industrial output, but expansion of mind and capacity. "To know more, and be more, and to do more" climbs in three steps - cognition, identity, action - a neat ladder that insists knowledge should transform the self and spill into behavior. It’s a rebuke to the Victorian habit of treating education as ornament. For Wilde, progress isn’t the machine getting faster; it’s the person getting larger.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 14). Our ambition should be to rule ourselves, the true kingdom for each one of us; and true progress is to know more, and be more, and to do more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-ambition-should-be-to-rule-ourselves-the-true-26946/
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Wilde, Oscar. "Our ambition should be to rule ourselves, the true kingdom for each one of us; and true progress is to know more, and be more, and to do more." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-ambition-should-be-to-rule-ourselves-the-true-26946/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Our ambition should be to rule ourselves, the true kingdom for each one of us; and true progress is to know more, and be more, and to do more." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/our-ambition-should-be-to-rule-ourselves-the-true-26946/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









