"What I mean by that is that the point of life, as I see it, is not to write books or scale mountains or sail oceans, but to achieve happiness, and preferably an unselfish happiness"
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The pivot - “What I mean by that” - is the novelist’s own self-interruption, a rhetorical rewind that suggests he’s correcting a common misunderstanding: that purpose equals productivity. Coming from a career author, it lands as a small act of heresy. He’s not romanticizing the artist’s grind; he’s refusing to let art masquerade as moral worth. The subtext is almost anti-ambition: not because ambition is bad, but because it’s too easily mistaken for a substitute for well-being.
Then he complicates the feel-good ending with a sharp qualifier: “preferably an unselfish happiness.” That single adjective does most of the ethical work. It acknowledges the obvious problem with happiness-as-goal: it can turn into self-absorption, comfort-chasing, or indifference. “Unselfish” reframes happiness as relational, something that survives scrutiny because it doesn’t require other people to lose. Contextually, it fits a writer best known for historical and martial narratives: after all the conquest and heroism on the page, the adult conclusion is modest, domestic, almost suspicious of glory. The sentence argues that meaning isn’t the mountain; it’s what you don’t trample while climbing it.
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| Topic | Meaning of Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cornwell, Bernard. (2026, January 17). What I mean by that is that the point of life, as I see it, is not to write books or scale mountains or sail oceans, but to achieve happiness, and preferably an unselfish happiness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-mean-by-that-is-that-the-point-of-life-as-46769/
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Cornwell, Bernard. "What I mean by that is that the point of life, as I see it, is not to write books or scale mountains or sail oceans, but to achieve happiness, and preferably an unselfish happiness." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-mean-by-that-is-that-the-point-of-life-as-46769/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What I mean by that is that the point of life, as I see it, is not to write books or scale mountains or sail oceans, but to achieve happiness, and preferably an unselfish happiness." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-i-mean-by-that-is-that-the-point-of-life-as-46769/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.







