"Eighty percent of our life is emotion, and only 20 percent is intellect. I am much more interested in how you feel than how you think. I can change how you think, but how you feel is something deeper and stronger, and it's something that's inside you"
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The line “I am much more interested in how you feel than how you think” is the tell. It recasts persuasion as empathy, but it’s operational empathy: a method for mapping anxieties, pride, resentment, hope. In Luntz’s world, feelings aren’t messy byproducts of politics; they are the product. That’s why he frames thought as pliable (“I can change how you think”) and feeling as bedrock (“deeper and stronger”). It’s a power claim disguised as respect: your core is yours, but your conclusions are mine to shape.
Context matters. Luntz is famous for focus-group linguistics, for turning policy into palatable phrasing and turning phrasing into political reality. This quote lands in an era when “messaging” isn’t an accessory to governance but a substitute for it, when the argument is less about facts than about which narrative makes people feel seen or threatened.
The subtext is chillingly practical: if you want durable political loyalty, don’t win debates; win identities. Minds can be persuaded; moods can be inhabited. Once you occupy the emotional home, the intellect tends to decorate itself accordingly.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Luntz, Frank. (2026, January 17). Eighty percent of our life is emotion, and only 20 percent is intellect. I am much more interested in how you feel than how you think. I can change how you think, but how you feel is something deeper and stronger, and it's something that's inside you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/eighty-percent-of-our-life-is-emotion-and-only-20-59185/
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Luntz, Frank. "Eighty percent of our life is emotion, and only 20 percent is intellect. I am much more interested in how you feel than how you think. I can change how you think, but how you feel is something deeper and stronger, and it's something that's inside you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/eighty-percent-of-our-life-is-emotion-and-only-20-59185/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Eighty percent of our life is emotion, and only 20 percent is intellect. I am much more interested in how you feel than how you think. I can change how you think, but how you feel is something deeper and stronger, and it's something that's inside you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/eighty-percent-of-our-life-is-emotion-and-only-20-59185/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.











