"Half our mistakes in life arise from feeling where we ought to think, and thinking where we ought to feel"
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The sentence is built like a balanced scale: “feeling where we ought to think” and its mirror-image reversal. That symmetry is the point. Collins is describing a cognitive style, not a moral failing. Some decisions demand cold assessment (money, power, evidence), and we wreck them by letting mood masquerade as judgment. Other moments demand moral or human responsiveness (grief, loyalty, intimacy), and we botch them by turning them into puzzles to be solved, treating people as problems and pain as an argument.
The subtext is corrective to Victorian rationalism without surrendering to Romantic impulse. Collins is defending emotional intelligence before the term existed: an ethics of appropriate registers. His “half” is also slyly generous. He leaves room for the other half of mistakes - ignorance, bad luck, structural constraints - while insisting that many disasters are self-inflicted by miscalibration. It’s criticism aimed outward at society’s hypocrisies, but it lands as a private diagnostic: not “be more logical” or “be more sensitive,” but know which voice should be speaking now.
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Collins, John Churton. (2026, January 16). Half our mistakes in life arise from feeling where we ought to think, and thinking where we ought to feel. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/half-our-mistakes-in-life-arise-from-feeling-113465/
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Collins, John Churton. "Half our mistakes in life arise from feeling where we ought to think, and thinking where we ought to feel." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/half-our-mistakes-in-life-arise-from-feeling-113465/.
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"Half our mistakes in life arise from feeling where we ought to think, and thinking where we ought to feel." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/half-our-mistakes-in-life-arise-from-feeling-113465/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






