"If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility"
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The elegance is in the conditional: “If we could read…” He isn’t claiming we can, or that empathy is easy, or that understanding automatically produces justice. He’s staging a thought experiment that implicates the reader’s imagination as the moral instrument. “Read” also matters: it casts compassion as an act of attention, not a gush of sentiment. You don’t have to approve of someone to acknowledge the complexity of their story.
Context sharpens the appeal. Longfellow, writing in a 19th-century America wracked by sectional conflict and the aftershocks of rapid social change, often aimed for a civic kind of lyricism - poetry as a soft counterforce to hardening identities. The subtext is quietly radical: enemies are not born from pure malice; they’re often shaped by wounds. “Disarm” lands as both metaphor and warning. To disarm hostility is to lower the weapon, but also to deprive hatred of its favorite justification: the fantasy that the other side feels nothing.
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| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Longfellow, Henry Wadsworth. (n.d.). If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-could-read-the-secret-history-of-our-19955/
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Longfellow, Henry Wadsworth. "If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-could-read-the-secret-history-of-our-19955/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If we could read the secret history of our enemies we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-we-could-read-the-secret-history-of-our-19955/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.










